"A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, but the mouth of fools pours out foolishness" Proverbs 15:1-2
What are the intentions of what you say? The bible says that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. So if the words out of your mouth are creating a tumultuous environment, chances are there is turmoil in your heart (Luke 6:45). The bible gives us very clear instructions on communication, with the primary focus being LISTENING. Make sure you are thinking before you speak. Once words leave the mouth, you cannot take them back!
Proverbs 23:9 Do not speak to fools, for they will scorn your prudent words.
Proverbs 17:28 Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they should hold their tongues.
Proverbs 29:20 Do you see someone who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him.
